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  • View author's info ( 64, Woman | Oxnard, CA, USA )

    Something we could do, together, like sipping coffee getting to know one another to see if the chemistry is right - second time, might be up to doing something like tandem bike riding, or pitch and putt, and open to his...  see more >>

  • View author's info ( 54, Woman | Columbus, OH, USA )

    What we as adults agree om. It could brunch, lunch or cup of coffee. Some place we both feel comfortable with.

  • View author's info ( 68, Woman | Portland, OR, USA )

    First dates are uncomfortable, I don't care who you are. I think doing random things during the day (going to art galleries (new concept for me) the zoo, searching 2nd hand stores, etc) relieves the "tension" o...  see more >>

  • View author's info ( 56, Woman | Marion, IN, USA )

    Well its winter time so a great first date to me would be hot coco or coffee and a long ride around the park by horse & carriage to talk and get to know each other. The park only has the horse and carriage rides up until...  see more >>

  • View author's info ( 60, Woman | Willis, TX, USA )

    First of all, guys, you need a plan. I want to find somebody who knows where he's going. For a first date be in charge. Meet me for lunch at the zoo and talk while we walk. It's natural, it's safe and it's amusing. Buy m...  see more >>

  • View author's info ( 62, Woman | Moreno Valley, CA, USA )

    We meet at restaurant for lite lunch with drinks. Then long walk on the beach to watch the sunset. With a fire so we can maybe make or just cuddle. Were both having a great time dont want the night to end fall asleep. Et...  see more >>

  • View author's info ( 60, Woman | Blackpool, England - Lancashire, GBR )

    Jump in ...and find our wings on the way down. A venetian masked ball sounds awesome so to does a romantic picnic next to an ocean

  • View author's info ( 58, Woman | Columbia, TN, USA )

    A nice local Winery for music, wine with some cheeses & crackers, get to know each other, & enjoy the outdoors, take a walk around the winery.

  • View author's info ( 55, Woman | Chatham, England - Kent, GBR )

    I don't mind so long as it's in a public place in daylight hours. It's not about the place it's about the person you are meeting. Coffee is always top of the list.... No idea why because it's a totally false setting real...  see more >>

  • View author's info ( 40, Woman | Warminster, England - Wiltshire, GBR )

    A visit to a local Manor House for a nice walk or a local festival if there is one on, or maybe a wine tasting afternoon.

  • View author's info ( 61, Woman | Cleveland, NC, USA )

    Go to flea markets or thrift shop and maybe go to a park and walk around, maybe stop and get some lunch. This way it would be casual and we could talk and get to know each other.

  • View author's info ( 64, Man | Monterey Park, CA, USA )

    Perhaps lunch, or maybe we can meet at a mall, or even for just a drink to ease the inhibitions. Like I mentioned earlier, I'm new to this, so I can understand meeting someone can be difficult. I'm open to suggestions.

  • View author's info ( 66, Man | Rochester, NY, USA )

    A walk along the beach enjoying some ice cream, while we fill our lungs with fresh air. Or, even a cup of coffee....something relaxing where we can converse.

  • View author's info ( 69, Woman | Boca Raton, FL, USA )

    Let's meet for a get to know you talk, then if agreed we can do whatever we want to do. I feel spending time talking is the best first date. Somewhere quiet with ambiance.

  • View author's info ( 65, Woman | Austin, TX, USA )

    I would like to meet you somewhere quiet and peaceful. Perhaps a walk in the greenbelt or a cup of coffee. I am a good listener and your words are important. In the event that there is no spark, I know I will be glad to...  see more >>